Today Marshmallow is reviewing a neat book which looks like a standard picture book for young readers but should likely be classified as something different: maybe a picture book for not-so-young readers. Mr. Distinctive was originally written in Polish by Olga Tokarczuk, illustrated by Joanna Concejo, and published in 2023. The English translation by Antonia Lloyd-Jones was published in 2025.

Marshmallow’s Quick Take: If you like books with beautiful artwork or books that make you reevaluate the way all of society is set up, then this is the book for you!
Marshmallow’s Summary (with Spoilers): Mr. Distinctive is a rather beautiful individual. His facial features are all unique and striking such that his smile instantly wins over any individual who sees it. He is gregarious, sociable, and one of the most popular people in his neighborhood.
Unfortunately, he is a little bit narcissistic. This mainly manifests itself through his tendency of taking an excessive number of selfies. Once he gets his first phone as an adult (it is to be presumed that he grew up in a time without them), he snaps photos everywhere—of course, with himself in the center of the screen.
Eventually, he notices that his features begin to blur more and more every time he takes and posts another photo. Eventually, things get to the point where his entire face is nothing more than a smudge of what used to be his perfect, distinctive face. Seeking to restore his beauty and uniqueness, he purchases a new face from a shady dealer for an extraordinary price he can barely afford. With his new face, he is once again perfect, yet the ending is still heartbreaking.

Marshmallow’s Review: The book begins with a series of pages filled with highly-detailed drawings of photos (presumably from Mr. Distinctive’s childhood). The book then begins, with some sparse text sprinkled throughout. Each page has beautiful illustrations that show a window into Mr. Distinctive’s world. In almost every aspect, it is the same as ours. Except that you can literally purchase a new face. I suppose plastic surgery achieves the same effect though.
To me, this book conveyed a very poignant, relevant message about the death of individuality in the modern world. Photo after photo, post after post, Mr. Distinctive showcases himself to the world online but loses himself in the process, forgetting to be distinctive in the real world.
SPOILER ALERT: At the end, he finds out that the new face he purchased in desperation is the same as everyone else around him. I believe this represents the idea that—as a result of social media—everyone begins to lose their own distinctiveness in favor of the creation of a duplication of everyone else. I found this to be deeply saddening, but I think the message is unfortunately true.
The photos (mostly Polaroids and physical photographs) from before the start of the text show what his life was when it was untouched by digital influences like social media. They show his youth in bright colors, each frame filled with bright smiles. Afterwards, the photos are much darker and more mature in a muted way which shows the transition from his previous, unedited life to a more manipulated, artificial world.
I think this message is relevant to many given the expansive effects of social media on almost every person in the world. Reading this book makes you reconsider the value of social media and losing your authentic self and your authentic life versus the superficial validation to be gained from posting picture after picture to get “likes”.
Marshmallow’s Rating: 100%.









