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Marshmallow reviews No Country for Eight-Spot Butterflies by Julian Aguon

Today Marshmallow reviews a little book with a big message: No Country for Eight-Spot Butterflies by Julian Aguon, published first in 2022.

Marshmallow’s Quick Take: If you like books that make you realize how horrible the world is while simultaneously teaching you how to stay hopeful, then this is the book for you!

Marshmallow’s Summary (with Spoilers): Julian Aguon is an Indigenous human rights lawyer and defender from Guam. He founded Blue Ocean Law to serve at the intersection of Indigenous rights and environmental justice, which will tell you what the main focus of this book is.

Through poems, speeches, and articles, Aguon shows the continual impacts of colonialism in Guam, the Marshall Islands, and so many other territories and sovereign states in similar situations. Specifically, he starts by showing how the U.S. government completely ignored protestors in Guam who were advocating to protect acres of beautiful limestone forest. In order to build yet another military base, the U.S. army bulldozed away the land home to the dying eight-spot butterfly. This is where the titular phrase “no country for eight-spot butterflies” comes from.

Citing the works of other great authors (he admits to particularly revering Arundhati Roy in a fashion similar to how one would adore a celebrity crush), Aguon presents the modern dilemma before the people facing the worst and most immediate impacts of climate change. Small island nations are not the ones contributing to the climate crisis, yet they are the ones already feeling its wrath.

Through this book, Aguon captures how truly horrific human nature can be and how violence and pain are running rampant everywhere around the world. He argues that one must learn to overcome speechlessness: the phenomenon of being left silent by atrocities because verbalizing them is simply too terrifying or graphic or painful.

No Country for Eight-Spot Butterflies is Aguon’s way of verbalizing the pain of his people and all those who are in a similarly hopeless situation. Global superpowers, he points out, do not care about the little guys who wield no weapons and have no power to stop them. He still has hope though and argues that the most dangerous thing in the world would be a generation of young people who have lost hope. In line with his ideals, I would suggest reading this book to each and every person who is ready to understand the scale of global suffering and is ready to accept our shared responsibility of alleviating it.

Marshmallow is reading No Country for Eight-Spot Butterflies by Julian Aguon. — Marshmallow is reading *No Country for Eight-Spot Butterflies* by Julian Aguon.

Marshmallow’s Review: I want to preface this by saying that No Country for Eight-Spot Butterflies is not a good book for young children. I was not expecting it to be as graphic and somewhat disturbing as it got to be at certain points. Because he has tasked himself with telling the story of our global circumstances accurately, Aguon must also show our worst demons. I cannot describe how purely evil some of these events reveal humans to be. Whether clothed in suits, surrounded by smooth, slimy words or brutishly, maliciously armed with machetes, human evil has never been as visible to me as it was in this book. I must admit I was not prepared, and I am infinitely grateful to be a bunny who has had no comparable experiences.

The fact that the author still has hope though should tell you something. As someone who has seen so much evidence that could convince even the most optimistic that hope is rather useless, the author somehow still believes that there are things worth fighting for and that hope has to survive.

This testimony of experiences shows another side of humanity that many have likely never heard of before. Reading No Country for Eight-Spot Butterflies reveals just how deeply humans are and have been suffering. But at the same time, despite it all, Aguon begs us to believe in goodness. I believe that if he still has faith in humanity, we all must too.

Marshmallow’s Rating: 111%.

Marshmallow rates No Country for Eight-Spot Butterflies by Julian Aguon 111%. — Marshmallow rates *No Country for Eight-Spot Butterflies* by Julian Aguon 111%.

Marshmallow reviews From Goddess to Mortal: The True-life Story of a Former Royal Kumari by Rashmila Shakya

Today Marshmallow reviews From Goddess to Mortal: The True-life Story of a Former Royal Kumari, written by Rashmila Shakya (as told to Scott Berry) and published in 2005.

Marshmallow’s Quick Take: If you like books that reveal unique and fascinating cultures through an up-close, never-seen-before lens, then this is the book for you!

Marshmallow’s Summary (with Spoilers): In her first year of preschool, Rashmila was selected to become the Kumari of her Nepali valley. Essentially, this means that she became a living goddess. Since ancient times, her people have selected a new young girl to hold this position after the previous one ages out. After passing tests that checked whether her horoscopes aligned well with the current kings, Rashmila was determined to have the “32 perfections” in a physical examination; she remains committed to the exam’s innocence and maintains that there was no personal violation.

Rashmila was confirmed as the Royal Kumari at age four and sent away from her family to live in Kumari Che, the palace dedicated to the child embodying the goddess. There she lived for eight years as a literal deity, waited on almost constantly with carers and playmates who always obeyed her every whim. She woke up early every day to play with her dolls and often performed duties at festivals. She was never allowed to touch the bare ground; whenever there was anywhere to go, she was either carried by men, brought by carriage or palanquin, or a white cloth was laid before her if she had to walk a couple steps. Back at the palace, she received visitors both foreign and domestic. As she was a deity of children, mothers would often visit her with their own children and pray for healing. And she would heal them.

It is truly fascinating to hear a former Kumari – a former child deity – reveal what it was like to be a goddess, from what she remembers. This tradition is ingrained in her culture and she truly believes / ed herself to be a deity who healed illness and channelled the soul of her land.

Her term ended when she turned twelve though. She was brought back to her real family home, but felt out of place. Though her own autonomy was limited at Kumari Che, she was loved and loved it there. So coming back to a life where she must walk on her own, eat at a table with others, and pull her own weight was a bit of a difficult transition. Rashmila admits that she did not react in a very admirable way. But it is necessary to give her some grace since she spent most of her life (at that point) living as a literal goddess.

The rest of the book covers Rashmila’s experiences as she becomes a mere mortal and discovers that life for former deities does exist if you are surrounded by a loving family and driven by the desire to make something more of yourself.

Marshmallow is reading From Goddess to Mortal: The True-life Story of a Former Royal Kumari by Rashmila Shakya (as told to Scott Berry). — Marshmallow is reading *From Goddess to Mortal: The True-life Story of a Former Royal Kumari* by Rashmila Shakya (as told to Scott Berry).

Marshmallow’s Review: From Goddess to Mortal is such a fascinating book! I had not heard of the Nepali tradition of the Kumari until Sprinkles read this book and recommended I read it too. Learning about this Nepali way of life and just the culture, peoples, and traditions there in general was amazing. I would highly recommend it to all because so many distinct and wonderful things are going up in those mountains that many of us have never heard of. Reading is a perfect way to discover more about the worlds in our world that we’ve never seen or experienced.

The book is written rather simplistically (sometimes the wording is a teensy bit clunky but it is a translation, making this an overly critical comment) so it is definitely accessible to everyone. There are eight chapters and one can read it in nicely sized chunks if one wants.

I think any curious-minded individual would love From Goddess to Mortal. It is interesting from an anthropological sense as well as a psychological sense too. Reading about Rashmila’s transformation and evolution as a person is fascinating. She is sometimes very insufferable to her genetic family early on, but you have to really think about things in context because of how different her life is and was from every other human or bunny to ever exist. Her experiences are truly unique and I do not think there are really many others who have lived what she has besides other former Kumari. This is just really fascinating to me and I am sure it will equally fascinate and educate others who pick up this book!

Marshmallow’s Rating: 96%.

Marshmallow rates From Goddess to Mortal: The True-life Story of a Former Royal Kumari by Rashmila Shakya (as told to Scott Berry) 96%. — Marshmallow rates *From Goddess to Mortal: The True-life Story of a Former Royal Kumari* by Rashmila Shakya (as told to Scott Berry) 96%.

Caramel reviews Night of the Moonjellies by Mark Shasha

Today Caramel is reviewing a beautiful book by Mark Shasha: Night of the Moonjellies, originally published in 1992. As usual, Sprinkles is taking notes and asking questions.

Sprinkles: So Caramel, for your last review before we take some time off for the summer, you chose to talk about this book.

Caramel: Well, you told me that summer officially starts on June 21 this year and told me we should talk about a summer book. I thought this would work well.

S: Yeah, this is a very nice picture book about the summer season.

C: Apparently, it is not even fully fiction! This book is about the author’s life. He is telling us things that have or might have happened when he was a kid.

S: Yeah, it might be a bit nostalgic then. Do you know what nostalgic means?

C: Yeah, it means a thing that evokes a sense of remembering a good thing?

S: Yeah, there is a feeling of sadness, about missing the past. The book is about a time that the author experienced as a child. So it is something he remembers fondly, from his past.

C: That makes sense. The book is about his family when he was growing up in Connecticut. His grandma, his uncle, his aunt, all his family are running a hot dog stand together, and he finds a moon jellyfish on the beach, and his grandma tells him to put it in a bag with water, so it doesn’t die. And then he tells us about his day. They make food for customers, and it is really busy.

S: And the boy is always helping out and kind of cheerful, right?

C: Yeah, he seems like a nice kid. And he seems like he really enjoys working together with his family and helping them out. All of them know what they need to do and they do it.

Caramel is reading Night of the Moonjellies by Mark Shasha. — Caramel is reading *Night of the Moonjellies* by Mark Shasha.

S: Cool! But the book is titled “Night of the Moonjellies” so eventually we should get to the night, right?

C: Yeah, at night his grandma takes him on a kind fisherman’s boat, and they release the moon jellyfish, and they see the ocean glow from the jellies; they make the night sea sparkle and look so pretty.

S: Yes! I think that how the jellies came together to make the ocean so pretty is kind of like how the boy and his family worked all day together in harmony to make something good happen.

C: Yeah. I didn’t think of that, but it makes sense.

S: Kind of like, my family and I, together we make something neat, and the jellies, they make something neat with their families, too.

C: Yeah, I can see that. But I think even without making a connection like that, I am sure the sea must have looked awesome!

S: Yeah, one would probably not forget such a sight.

C: Yeah, if I saw such a thing, it would be so cool! I’d definitely remember it forever, too.

S: Do you remember something like that? Have you ever seen something in nature that awed you? That moved you so deeply?

C: No, I don’t think so, but it would have been cool.

S: Actually I remember you seeing something and being that awed. Some years ago, we were in Japan. We were so lucky to be there during the cherry blossom season. And you were a tiny little bunny, but your awe, your thrill, your joy were all so visible.

C: Oh, wait, I do remember that, how did I not remember that?

S: Well, maybe you were trying to think of experiences on the ocean. Or anything during the summer. The cherry blossoms were very much in the spring. And they were so beautiful! You definitely remember them now, right?

C: Yep. That’s why I think I didn’t come up with it immediately. But yeah, the cherry blossoms were so beautiful..

S: We don’t get to have too many such experiences. Sometimes beautiful things just happen and we don’t see them. We are too busy, too distracted. But when they do happen and you witness them, it is important to take note. I hope you will always remember the cherry blossoms.

C: Yeah, I will try. I’ll try to never forget.

S: Okay, Caramel, so do you think this is a good time to wrap up our review?

C: Sure.

S: So what do you want to say to our readers then?

C: Stay tuned for more book bunny reviews!

Caramel enjoyed reading Night of the Moonjellies by Mark Shasha and is totally ready for the summer! — Caramel enjoyed reading *Night of the Moonjellies* by Mark Shasha and is totally ready for the summer!

Marshmallow reviews The Color of Water by James McBride

Today Marshmallow is writing about The Color of Water: A Black Man’s Tribute to His White Mother, written by James McBride and first published in 1995.

Marshmallow reviews The Color of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother by James McBride. — Marshmallow reviews *The Color of Water: A Black Man’s Tribute to His White Mother* by James McBride.

Marshmallow’s Quick Take: If you like biographies that reveal nuanced stories about race, family, identity, and love, then this is the book for you!

Marshmallow’s Summary (with Spoilers): James McBride is a Black man with a White mother. Today, this would likely not be considered much of a big deal. After all, mixed race marriages are something relatively commonplace in the United States today and are the simple result of the fact that love generally does not see color. However, back in the 1960s, such relationships were demonized and the pair separated by all means possible; Loving v. Virginia, the landmark decision of the U.S. Supreme Court on interracial marriage was only passed in 1967.

For James’ mother Ruth, this was yet another struggle in a long, seemingly endless line of strife. She was born in America to two Polish Jews and, due to the fact that her father was a “lousy rabbi,” her family had to keep moving to find new places of work for him. Eventually, they settled down in Suffolk, Virginia. There, Ruth felt discrimination firsthand constantly, with classmates calling her “Jew baby” or worse. But she also witnessed the overt racism directed towards Black people around her. Her first boyfriend, Peter, was a Black man and the young couple kept their relationship a secret out of fear of the KKK. Ruth also faced consistent abuse at home from a father that emotionally, physically, and sexually tormented her; yet, despite all of this, she persevered quietly and eventually built a family. She then kept rebuilding every time she was torn down.

In The Color of Water, the author James McBride tells the story of Ruth’s life intertwined with segments of his own autobiography in between. McBride describes his chaotic environment growing up as the eighth child out of twelve total. While he knew he was loved, there was unending pressure from Ruth to be academically successful, and within such a large family, there was not enough attention to go around. As James grew older, he started recognizing that his mother’s race was different from his own and that race was a construct that society unfortunately valued in countless ways. In seeking to uncover the details of his mother’s life, James simultaneously searches for his own identity and the role that race has in America. This likely won’t come as a surprise to anyone, but the answer is nuanced and riddled with mystery—much like Ruth herself.

Marshmallow is reading The Color of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother by James McBride. — Marshmallow is reading *The Color of Water: A Black Man’s Tribute to His White Mother* by James McBride.

Marshmallow’s Review: I found The Color of Water: A Black Man’s Tribute to His White Mother to be a very interesting book. As a mixed race bunny growing up in a quite mixed neighborhood and school district, I have never really felt any need to ‘discover myself’ because I already knew what I was. However, James’ identity quest is understandable, especially because race was even more central to society in those times. Today, of course, race is still an issue, but seeing the way our nation was back then gives you a better sense of the role of race over time.

The Color of Water: A Black Man’s Tribute to His White Mother examines race on a national scale by specifically analyzing its role within a family setting. James’ story is rather unique, but the themes throughout the book (abuse, race, search for security, selflessness, grief, etc) are representative of the general human experience in certain ways. I think the fact that his life is sort of a more extreme version of general experiences helps highlight how remarkable the people in his life—and most people in general—are.

The book is relatively easy to read and I think the author wrote it for a broad audience. There are mentions of sexual abuse, drug use, and violence, so some parts might make this better for older readers (maybe twelve and older?) But overall, The Color of Water is a very important book that reveals simple truths about love, humanity, and America—such as the obvious fact that race should never dictate anything, especially love.

Marshmallow’s Rating: 100%.

Marshmallow rates The Color of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother by James McBride 100%. — Marshmallow rates *The Color of Water: A Black Man’s Tribute to His White Mother* by James McBride 100%.