Marshmallow reviews Healthy Brain Happy Life by Wendy Suzuki and Billie Fitzpatrick

Today Marshmallow is reviewing Healthy Brain, Happy Life: A Personal Program To Activate Your Brain and Do Everything Better by Wendy Suzuki and Billie Fitzpatrick. originally published in 2016.

Marshmallow reviews  Healthy Brain, Happy Life: A Personal Program To Activate Your Brain and Do Everything Better by Wendy Suzuki and Billie Fitzpatrick.
Marshmallow reviews Healthy Brain, Happy Life: A Personal Program To Activate Your Brain and Do Everything Better by Wendy Suzuki and Billie Fitzpatrick.

Marshmallow’s Quick Take: If you like your brain, then this is the book for you!

Marshmallow’s Summary (with Spoilers): Dr. Suzuki is a neuroscientist who has spent most of her high-powered academic career studying how our brain creates and processes memories. Yet, as she approached her forties, she realized that she didn’t have many of her own that weren’t centered around her work. Suzuki explains that, after securing a tenured position at NYU, she felt that her main goal in life had finally been accomplished; but, despite this, she was deeply dissatisfied. She had no close friends and did not exercise, leaving her unhealthy and unhappy.

As a scientist, she decides to fix this problem using her own expertise: neuroscience. Of course, while understanding the brain is key to understanding how habits form, it doesn’t give you an automatic path to being able to create healthy ones. Suzuki admits that several of her life changes were only successful due to the support she got from her surroundings. For example, she joined a gym immediately after realizing that she wanted to change her habits. However, when she began exercising, she found herself eating Twix bars everyday immediately before each workout. The main reasons she stuck with her fitness goals were that she started immediately feeling and seeming stronger and that her fitness coach kept her motivated and happy. However, personal trainers are not available to everyone. So this book is an alternative guide for self-improvement. It teaches the reader about different parts of the brain that affect everything from how you feel to how you create the memories that form your identity.

I found it fascinating to read Healthy Brain, Happy Life because you realize that everything up in your skull is tied together in unexpected ways. So there is a lot of neuroscience in the book. But this is not just a textbook! It includes personal anecdotes from Suzuki’s life that show you how you can break free from mental restrictions and understand how you feel and how to make yourself feel better. Throughout the book, Suzuki particularly advocates for aerobic exercise, citing a plethora of research and experience that backs up that central claim. She even created a course on the subject at NYU, combining lectures with weekly class exercises taught by none other than Dr. Suzuki. Aerobic exercise is a significant part of her suggestions, but it is not everything. She examines how the way we think often has roots in deeper anxieties and teaches you how to think about your brain. I think the perspective you gain by the end of the book is the most valuable part because it really shows you how remarkable your mind is. That and the resulting duty you feel to protect and cherish your mind are the two lessons that I believe make a lasting impact.

Marshmallow is reading  Healthy Brain, Happy Life: A Personal Program To Activate Your Brain and Do Everything Better by Wendy Suzuki and Billie Fitzpatrick.
Marshmallow is reading Healthy Brain, Happy Life: A Personal Program To Activate Your Brain and Do Everything Better by Wendy Suzuki and Billie Fitzpatrick.

Marshmallow’s Review: I really enjoyed reading Healthy Brain, Happy Life: A Personal Program To Activate Your Brain and Do Everything Better. I found it fascinating to learn about which parts of your brain tie into certain functions and I think Suzuki and Fitzpatrick do an excellent job of explaining neuroscience in a simple, easy-to-understand way that is extraordinarily accessible. By the end of the book, the reader is completely convinced of the relevance of neuroscience to everyday life.

I think the reason that the book is so effective in conveying this scientific message is that each claim is exemplified or validated by a case example. Everything suggested is something that worked for Suzuki herself or for someone else. So regardless of what your goals or specific desires are, this book undoubtedly has something to say that can help you get there.

I think overall Healthy Brain, Happy Life: A Personal Program To Activate Your Brain and Do Everything Better is a necessity for anyone who is looking to live a happy, healthy, and balanced life because it shows you exactly what makes a life worth living—according to both neuroscience and human experience. I would highly recommend this book to everyone and I believe it is still relatively comprehensible for children at or around 12. I think even ten year olds might be able to yield something from this book (though of course it would have to be a very motivated ten year old)!

Regardless of your age or your situation, Suzuki and Fitzpatrick have written the book for you and all your physical, mental, and emotional needs. Self-care, self-improvement, and self-awareness are difficult to develop. But with this book, you can do exactly that.

Marshmallow’s Rating: 111%.

Marshmallow rates  Healthy Brain, Happy Life: A Personal Program To Activate Your Brain and Do Everything Better by Wendy Suzuki and Billie Fitzpatrick 111%.
Marshmallow rates Healthy Brain, Happy Life: A Personal Program To Activate Your Brain and Do Everything Better by Wendy Suzuki and Billie Fitzpatrick 111%.

Marshmallow reviews The Illustrated Happiness Trap by Russ Harris and Bev Aisbett

Today Marshmallow wanted to talk to Sprinkles about The Illustrated Happiness Trap by Russ Harris and Bev Ausbett, first published in 2014.

Marshmallow reviews The Illustrated Happiness Trap by Russ Harris and Bev Aisbett.
Marshmallow reviews The Illustrated Happiness Trap by Russ Harris and Bev Aisbett.

Sprinkles: So Marshmallow this time you chose a book that is not really intended for a young audience.

Marshmallow: Yeah, I suppose.

S: This book is apparently an illustrated and abbreviated version of a more normal-sized book which could be considered a self-help book. And we have not really gone into the self-help book genre here much.

M: True. I did review a book about confidence, a book about time management for teenagers, and two books about how to be a good student. But we do not typically review self-help books, you are right.

S: But I think the title and the cover page of this book are both very intriguing, aren’t they?

M: Yes, I like how it has a Pac-Man style half-split smiley face.

S: Yes, it is quite striking how the smiley who could represent authentic happiness, but also a fake version of it, is somehow split open with the title.

M: Yeah.

S: So I had only read a little bit of the book before you took it from me and I know you have finished reading it quite fast. I understand it is about happiness?

M: Yes, kind of. It is basically about how we should not be going after happiness as our goal in life.

S: Hmm, this reminds me of a very interesting young person in one of my classes who had said that they did not necessarily want happiness for their child. They wanted them to find purpose.

M: Yeah, it is kind of like that. The main goal of the book is to dispel the myth that happiness is the right goal for one’s life. The goal should instead be to figure out your values and live your life accordingly. Once you know your values, the goals you set for yourself should reflect those values and be feasible. And along the way, you are likely to be unhappy at times, and that is not a disaster.

S: I see. So the title is basically saying that the idea that you should always be happy is flawed.

M: Yes, and that pursuing the goal of living a life where you are always to be happy and have no negative feelings leads to only unhappiness.

S: I see. That makes sense to me. I also saw that the book mentions explicitly four myths. Can you tell us what they are?

M: Okay. So the first one is “Happiness is the natural state for human beings.” The second is “If you are not happy, you are defective.” The third is “To create a better life, we must get rid of negative feelings.” And the fourth one is “You should be able to control what you think and feel.”

S: I can see how the first three are wrong, if we accept the main thrust of the book. And I already did not believe some of them myself. Like there are sometimes very good reasons not to be happy. But the fourth one is hard for me to accept. It feels kind of disempowering.

M: I agree with you. But I think the idea behind their stance, which they call Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, is that basically you should accept your feelings and decide what to do with them in a productive manner. As you learn to do this better and more effectively, your emotional state can change, too, and improve, but that is not the main goal.

Marshmallow is reading The Illustrated Happiness Trap by Russ Harris and Bev Aisbett.
Marshmallow is reading The Illustrated Happiness Trap by Russ Harris and Bev Aisbett.

S: So Marshmallow, I think these are all rather hefty thoughts and a bit heavier than some of the things we read and talk about here in this blog.

M: True, but we have talked about all sorts of other heavy things like war and slavery and so on. So talking about mental health challenges should not be totally out of bounds, I think.

S: Oh I agree.

M: And we have talked about mindfulness before. Actually you and Caramel talked about a book about how breathing could be helpful. And then there were those two books about dragons and anger management.

S: True. And the topic is actually quite relevant to a lot of bunnies.

M: Yes,. sure, this is not really quite meant for little bunnies, but maybe a bunny around my age would be perfectly fine with it. And I think they could learn from it.

S: I am glad you found the book helpful.

M: I did. I found it resonating a bit with the Getting Things Done book I reviewed before. Both books say that figuring out your values and building your life around them is a good idea.

S: I can see how that could be helpful for teenagers who are looking to build their lives, preparing to grow up into adult bunnies. So if you were to rate the book then, what would you rate it?

M: I’d rate it 95%. I especially liked the illustrations and how they made the book so much easier and quicker to read. Because it is kind of stressful to read a book about mindfulness sometimes. I feel like I am losing time, but this book is so quick and you learn a lot.

S: Great! I will now take it from your paws then and finally get the chance to finish it myself. What would you like to tell our readers as we wrap up this review?

M: Stay tuned for more amazing reviews from the book bunnies!

Marshmallow rates The Illustrated Happiness Trap by Russ Harris and Bev Aisbett 95%.
Marshmallow rates The Illustrated Happiness Trap by Russ Harris and Bev Aisbett 95%.