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Marshmallow reviews Fun Home by Alison Bechdel

Today Marshmallow reviews Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic by Alison Bechdel, published first in 2006. Sprinkles is taking notes and asking questions.

Sprinkles: I know you enjoy reading graphic novels, Marshmallow, so I thought this book might be right up your alley. Let us talk about it. Can you tell our readers first what the book is about?

Marshmallow: The book is about Alison Bechdel herself, who is a cartoon artist. The story is about her growing up and figuring out her sexual orientation and coming out to her parents.

S: That is a pretty serious topic.

M: It is. But it is not all. There is also the fact that her father is also gay, and she eventually figures this out and wants to feel close to him, similar to him.

S: So why is the book called Fun Home?

M: Because her family is running a funeral home, and when they talk of the business, they jokingly call their home the fun home.

S: Is the book funny?

M: I did not think that was the main point of the book. It is essentially a memoir, the artist coming to terms with her sexuality and her family.

S: So the themes seem to me to be more appropriate for older bunnies, would you agree?

M: Yes, probably high school or above. There is some somewhat explicit sexual content, and there is some mention of drug use as well. Caramel wanted to read it too, but I think he might not yet be ready for it.

S: Hmm, I see. Did you know that the book was banned in some places because it was deemed to be immoral?

M: I could imagine. A lot of books about different sexual orientations seem to bother a lot of people.

Marshmallow is reading Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic by Alison Bechdel. — Marshmallow is reading *Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic* by Alison Bechdel.

S: Did you know this book was made into a Broadway musical?

M: It says so on the cover of the book. So we looked it up and found some of the songs. It apparently won lots of awards! I also remember that Alison Bechdel appeared in a Simpsons episode we saw recently, the one where Lisa and Marge write a graphic novel called Sad Girl.

S: Yes, that is true. And the Bechdel test was mentioned in that episode, too, do you remember? Do you know what the Bechdel test is?

M: Wikipedia says that it is “a measure of the representation of women in film and other fiction. The test asks whether a work features at least two women who talk to each other about something other than a man. The requirement that the two women be named is sometimes added.” That Simpsons episode talked about that too.

S: It is a neat idea, isn’t it?

M: And kind of sad that it is a thing actually.

S: Agreed. Anyways, back to Fun Home. All in all, I am glad you read this book, and we got to talk about it. It is an important book in many ways.

M: I can appreciate that. But I do think it is not very suitable for young bunnies.

S: I get it. So if you were to rate it what would you rate it as?

M: I’d rate it 90%. It is well written, well drawn, and tells an important story. But it is not quite appropriate for young bunnies, and parents and other adults responsible for young bunnies should read it before sharing with their young ones.

S: Fair enough. So let us wrap up this review. What would you like to tell our readers?

M: Stay tuned for more amazing reviews from the book bunnies!

Marshmallow rates Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic by Alison Bechdel 90%. — Marshmallow rates *Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic* by Alison Bechdel 90%.

Marshmallow reviews The Wayfaring Journeyman by Ingo Milton

Today Marshmallow reviews The Wayfaring Journeyman: Oskar’s Story from Apprentice to Master, a short graphic novel by Ingo Milton and published in 2015 by Den Gamle By.

Marshmallow reviews The Wayfaring Journeyman: Oskar's Story from Apprentice to Master by Ingo Milton. — Marshmallow reviews *The Wayfaring Journeyman: Oskar’s Story from Apprentice to Master* by Ingo Milton.

Marshmallow’s Quick Take: If you like historical fiction or if you enjoy graphic novels, then this might be the book for you.

Marshmallow’s Summary (with Spoilers): Born in 1827 and raised in Haderslev, Denmark, Oskar Larsen begins an apprenticeship in 1839. Apprenticeship is hard work: working under a master cabinet maker, he must endure physical hardship for five years as he toils and trains to become a journeyman. During this time, he must build a wide variety of items and work as a joiner (“a person who constructs the wooden components of a building, such as stairs, doors, and door and window frames”, according to Oxford Languages).

During the day, Oskar works and eats with his fellow apprentices and their master. The master has a wife and two daughters. After the death of the family cat, Oskar becomes close with Esther, one of the master’s daughters. Before he can finish his apprenticeship, he must build a test piece.

After his test piece is approved and he passes the hazing, Oskar becomes a journeyman. As a journeyman, he can work for other master craftsmen but cannot employ others to help him. He travels all around Europe looking for employment opportunities; he even goes to Constantinople, which is today Istanbul. Striving to build his own workshop, he must get approval from the Guild to get his Master’s Certificate.

Once he gets his Certificate, there are unexpected events and Oskar ends up getting married. Things get even more complicated.

Marshmallow is reading The Wayfaring Journeyman: Oskar's Story from Apprentice to Master by Ingo Milton. — Marshmallow is reading *The Wayfaring Journeyman: Oskar’s Story from Apprentice to Master* by Ingo Milton.

Marshmallow’s Review: I liked reading The Wayfaring Journeyman: Oskar’s Story from Apprentice to Master. In less than 50 pages, this graphic novel offers a unique perspective on life as an apprentice, a journeyman, and, eventually, a master craftsman in the 1800s. This book taught me a lot that I didn’t know before, especially about trade guilds and their traditions from a couple centuries ago.

Though the story was overall interesting and engaging, I felt the ending was a bit abrupt. The illustrations are vivid and colorful, and overall, the book is easy to read.

According to the text on page 45 of the book, “Oskar is a fictitious character, but the storyline is historically correct, and information refers to actual facts.” He narrates the story, and it is interesting to hear from someone who is supposed to have lived about two hundred years ago.

The Wayfaring Journeyman is mostly kid-appropriate, and I think that the story would appeal to many young bunnies. However, there is a dead body shown pretty early on. There is also some nudity at the end of the book and some bad words here and there, so parents may want to read the book first and decide for themselves.

Marshmallow’s Rating: 95%.

Marshmallow rates The Wayfaring Journeyman: Oskar's Story from Apprentice to Master by Ingo Milton 95%. — Marshmallow rates *The Wayfaring Journeyman: Oskar’s Story from Apprentice to Master* by Ingo Milton 95%.

Marshmallow reviews Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret by Judy Blume

A while back Marshmallow reviewed Blubber by Judy Blume. Today she reviews another classic by Blume: Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret, first published in 1970. Sprinkles is asking questions and taking notes.

Sprinkles: So Marshmallow, let us start at the beginning. Who do you think would appreciate this book?

Marshmallow: I think girls who are approaching adolescence and may have some concerns about growing up might find this book relatable. Also if you liked other books by Judy Blume, I think you would definitely like this too.

S: That is a good start. Okay, more specifically, tell us now about the plot.

M: Margaret is this girl who just moved to New Jersey. And she is starting a new school and she makes a new friend named Nancy Wheeler —

S: This Nancy Wheeler?

M: Yeah, no. Not the Nancy from Stranger Things. Though she is also a girl who is living in a suburb with her family and wants to fit in and so on.

S: Okay, so let us get back to Margaret.

M: Yes, so Margaret’s dad was raised Jewish and her mom was raised Christian, but their families did not approve so they eloped and did not dictate a religion on their daughter. And when she lived in New York, nobody seemed to be perplexed by this, but here in her new school, her friends seem to want her to choose to belong to one or the other community.

S: And she is talking to God all through the book, right? Which God is this one?

M: Well, it is definitely a personal God, and Margaret shares her concerns, fears, hopes, and desires with Him. but through the book, we see her not making a specific choice. Her new teacher, Mr. Benedict, wants each student in her sixth grade class to pick a topic that is personally important to them and spend time that whole year to research it. Margaret chooses religion, hoping that through the year, she will try to figure out whether she should be Christian or Jewish. Remember both her grandparents are religious, but the Christian ones, her maternal grandparents cut off their relationship with them. Margaret does have a close relationship with her father’s mother, Sylvia, who encourages her to explore her Jewish heritage.

S: So the book is partially about Margaret exploring religion. But it is also a lot about growing up, right?

M: Right. Margaret’s new friends are obsessed with their growing bodies, and wearing bras, and boys, and so on, and Margaret does not yet feel like she is that interested in any of these things, but she wants to fit in, and so she ends up sharing their obsessions. Which was kind of weird to me, actually, because this is not quite how the girls in my school have been acting.

S: But maybe some of the girls in your school, too, might be interested in these kinds of things. Not all bunnies are like you and your friends, Marshmallow.

M: Well, I did not mean to sound like I am all so much more mature…

S: You are a pretty mature young bunny. But when I was growing up, there were a lot of girls like Nancy and her friends, and I feel like a lot of girls must have sympathized with the characters of the book for this book to have become such an iconic book.

M: Yes. It might also be that they felt like they should act like Nancy but they were actually feeling like Margaret who is not quite there. And eventually she does start obsessing about similar things.

S: The desire to fit in is often very strong. Especially among teens and tweens, but more generally it seems to be pretty common.

M: Yes.

Marshmallow is reading Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret by Judy Blume. — Marshmallow is reading *Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret* by Judy Blume.

S: So this book was iconic, but it was also banned in many places. Did you know that?

M: Yes, I did. It talks about menstruation and so on, which some people claimed were not appropriate. But also it talks about religion and how it is okay if you do not pick between Christianity or Judaism, and how there might be other ways to finding spirituality in your life. This probably came across as anti-religion to some very religious folks.

S: Well, maybe today we are a bit more open-minded about these things. And the United States is a lot more diverse today in terms of people’s religious affiliations.

M: Yes, Margaret said, for example, that she was not considering Islam or Buddhism because she did not know anyone from those religions.

S: But there are people from a few other religions in your class, right?

M: Yep.

S: So we have come a long way from the 70s in that regard.

M: I hope so!

S: Okay, did you like Margaret as a character?

M: She is okay, she is very genuine, and kind of bland, she does not have a very big and sharp personality, and maybe that is intentional because the reader can fill in the gaps and more easily identify with her.

S: That makes sense to me.

M: There is also a girl in the school who has already grown up in terms of her body, and all the other people think she is sticking out. They make up rumors about her, they gossip about her, and they are pretty mean.

S: That is not good.

M: I think they are jealous. And I don’t think the girl does anything to deserve it.

S: Middle school can be a cruel place.

M: Well, they are in sixth grade but I guess that is middle school in some places.

S: Yep. So we got a hold of this book because there is a new movie about it. Do you think we should see it?

M: Yes. The trailer looks fun. Can we put a link to it here?

S: Sure, let us embed it right now:

Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret. (2023) Official Trailer, from YouTube.

S: Do the characters look the way you visualized them?

M: Not quite, but I think they are close enough.

S: So we should try and watch it then. Okay, how would you rate this book?

M: I’d rate it 95%.

S: Sounds good. And what do you want to tell our readers as we wrap things up?

M: Stay tuned for more amazing book reviews from the book bunnies!

Marshmallow rates Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret by Judy Blume 95%. — Marshmallow rates *Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret* by Judy Blume 95%.

Marshmallow reviews The Outsiders by S. E. Hinton

Marshmallow has been reading S. E. Hinton’s classic novel The Outsiders, first published in 1967. Today she shares some of her thoughts on the book with the blog readers. Sprinkles is taking notes and asking questions.

Sprinkles: So Marshmallow, can you introduce us to this book?

Marshmallow: If you like books about belonging, growing up, and facing challenges as a young person, you might like this book.

S: That’s a good start. So now let us move into the book. Can you tell us a bit about the plot?

M: There are two gangs, or maybe groups of friends, who hang out and occasionally clash, sometimes pretty violently. They call these things rumbles, they are basically fights.

S: Okay, so two groups. Made up of young people, and our main characters belong to one or the other. What are the names of the two groups?

M: One of them is made up of richer kids and they are called the Soc, short for “social”. The other group has poorer kids in it, and they are called the greasers, because they put grease in their hair. Mostly boys but there are girls that hang out with one or the other group.

S: Okay, that gives us a good idea of the setting. So tell us now about what happens in the book.

M: The main character is this boy named Ponyboy. And that is his real name. And his middle brother’s name is Sodapop.

S: Those are some creative names!

M: I know, right? The oldest brother has a much more typical name, Darrel, but people call him Darry.

S: Alright.

M: So these three boys’ parents are dead. And the oldest brother Darry is taking care of the younger ones. Ponyboy is the youngest of the greasers. The other greasers are Steve, Johnny, Dally, Two-Bit, and I think that is mainly it.

S: Okay.

M: One day Ponyboy, Dally, and Johnny go to the movies and meet two Soc girls named Cherry and Marcia. Dally is rude to the girls, but Ponyboy and Johnny become closer to them. Then some Soc boys come and there is some trouble. Eventually, another day, there is a fight, and Johnny ends up killing one of the Soc boys while trying to save Ponyboy from getting hurt. So Johnny and Ponyboy run away and hide, with the help of Dally, who has gotten into trouble with the law before.

S: That sounds kind of big, killing someone. These are still only kids, aren’t they?

M: Well, they are more or less. Ponyboy is 14 and Johnny is 16.

S: Alright, then what happens?

M: Well, I cannot tell you everything, but there is a big fire, and the boys try to help save some children who have been trapped in the fire, so they become heroes of some sort, but Johnny still has killed someone, so he needs to be punished. But he is also pretty injured during the fire. So I will stop here because we are already talking about stuff way into the book.

S: Alright, that makes total sense. We already got the gist of the story I think.

Marshmallow is reading The Outsiders by S. E. Hinton. — Marshmallow is reading *The Outsiders* by S. E. Hinton.

S: So you began reading this book because your class is reading it at school, right?

M: Yep. We are still reading and discussing it in class.

S: We read it at school, too, I think, but it was many many years ago. I do not remember the story very well. I also did not remember the author’s name.

M: Well, she is using only initials. It is because she was very young when she wrote the book, and they thought a book by a young woman who is a total unknown would not sell. There is an interview with the author at the back of the copy of the book I read where she says this.

S: I did not remember that at all, but the Wikipedia article about the book says that she was only 15 when she started writing the story and was 18 when it was published. That is pretty young!

M: Yes, it is impressive.

S: And maybe that really was the right thing to do, because the book did get really famous and they made a movie of it, too.

M: I know! In fact we are going to watch it at school. Can we put the trailer of the movie here?

S: Sure. Here it is:

The Outsiders (1983) Official Trailer, from YouTube.

S: I remember that we did watch this movie in class too, and it was all very exciting. A lot of the actors became really famous after this.

M: I’m excited to watch it too.

S: So maybe we should slowly wrap this up. Before that, would you mind telling me what you thought of the characters?

M: I thought they were good. Ponyboy narrates the story, and you get to really empathize with him. He does smoke a lot though. Still he is very thoughtful and cares about people.

S: Anything else?

M: I thought the book did a good job of pointing towards social economic inequalities. The rich kids all also have problems with their families and such, but when the poor kids get into trouble, their lives get so much more difficult. And these kinds of differences make it harder for people to empathize with others. Ponyboy thinks that he and the greasers are all outsiders and nobody else, none of the Socs, can ever understand their lives. And he does have a point, I think.

S: But after some of the events of the book, he realizes that Socs are also human, according to the book description in one of the versions of the book.

M: Yes, I guess so. But the class differences still remain, and that is also there till the end. The consequences are so much tougher for the greasers.

S: Thank you for this review Marshmallow. I think I might want to revisit this book, or at least the movie! You always rate the books you review. So what would you rate this one?

M: I’d rate it 100%.

S: Sounds like it! Okay, and to wrap up, what do you want to tell our readers?

M: Stay tuned for more amazing book reviews from the book bunnies!

Marshmallow rates The Outsiders by S. E. Hinton 100%. — Marshmallow rates *The Outsiders* by S. E. Hinton 100%.